Types Of Women By Attitude




Types Of Women By Attitude


In a post-sexual-liberation society, a direct hypothetical question about the price of sex functions as a diagnostic probe of honesty rather than a solicitation or valuation of the person. The response reveals an underlying attitude toward sex—transactional, non-transactional, affinity-based, or evasive—while the willingness to answer straightforwardly measures integrity. An honest stance, whatever its content, carries more weight than any particular attitude toward sex itself. Those who treat the question as inherently offensive engage a low-value power dynamic that substitutes moral judgment for disclosure.


The Priced

She names a figure. The number can be compared against prevailing rates for professional sex work to gauge how she locates ordinary sexual access relative to a market baseline. The response is explicit and measurable.

The Non-Negotiable

She states that she is not for sale at any price. Outcomes associated with this stance typically include prolonged singlehood or marriage to a provider who underwrites her lifestyle. The boundary is absolute and non-transactional.

The Affinity-Conditional

She will have sex without payment if she likes the man. The condition is personal preference rather than compensation; once stated, the terms of engagement are clear.

The Deflector

She answers, “If you have to ask, the answer is no.” The reply refuses both a price and an affirmative condition, converting the inquiry itself into grounds for refusal. Trust in the statement remains provisional because the underlying criterion stays unstated.

The category of women who immediately frame the question as offensive does not describe an independent attitude toward sex; it is a reactive subtype that can overlay any of the above. It prioritizes policing the asker’s legitimacy over disclosing her own position, thereby converting a request for honesty into a status contest. No further primary types appear in the categorisation.





Do Any Famous Paintings Depict The Three Attitudes?

No well-known painting accurately depicts the three attitudes (The Priced, The Non-Negotiable, and The Affinity-Conditional).

These categories are a modern observational distinction focused on honesty about sexual terms—explicit price, absolute refusal of any price, or free conditional only on personal liking. Traditional art does not organize female figures around that specific diagnostic.


The nearest works are Symbolist treatments of feminine extremes or life stages, and they fall short:

  • Jan Toorop’s The Three Brides (1892–93) comes closest in structure. It places a pure central bride between a Madonna/nun figure of highest abstinence and a sensual figure of carnal, material desire (the courtesan with skulls). This maps the Non-Negotiable and the Priced as poles, but the center is innocence choosing between them, not a woman who will give sex freely because she likes the man.
  • Edvard Munch’s Woman in Three Stages / Sphinx (1894) shows a white-clad dreaming/virginal figure, a nude sensual woman “who loves life,” and a pale, nun-like or withdrawn figure. Munch himself described them as “the dreaming woman, the woman who loves life, and the woman as a nun,” or as saint, whore, and unfortunate devotee. The middle figure is full sexual maturity and invitation, not the clear, non-transactional affinity condition. The set remains a cycle of life or a psychological triad rather than the priced / absolute / affinity distinction.


Other triads (the Three Graces, Judgment of Paris goddesses, Madonna/Whore pairings, or classical divisions of wife/mistress/concubine) address beauty, status, spiritual versus carnal, or social role. None isolate the three honesty-based attitudes toward sex.




Jan Toorop 'The Three Brides' (1893)


Jan Toorop’s The Three Brides (1892–93) presents a Symbolist binary of extremes with a pure center, not the three attitudes toward sex in the thesis.

The work shows three principal figures:

Left: A Madonna- or nun-like woman symbolizing the spiritual life, “highest consecration and the highest abstinence.” She renounces the senses so the soul may live. This corresponds most closely to The Non-Negotiable— an absolute refusal of any price or transaction.

Right: A sensual figure with a string of skulls, representing earthly, carnal, “deep carnal, false, material desire” and often read as the courtesan who sacrifices the soul for the senses. This aligns with The Priced — the explicitly transactional stance that can be measured against market rates.

Center: The radiant, veiled young bride of unspoiled life. She is the innocent who must choose between the two poles. Contemporary descriptions and the museum’s reading treat her as the pure potential of the eternally feminine, not as a woman who will give sex freely on the basis of personal liking. She does not depict The Affinity-Conditional.

The painting therefore captures a spiritual-versus-carnal opposition (Non-Negotiable versus Priced) with innocence positioned between them. It does not depict the third attitude—the clear, non-transactional willingness conditioned only on affinity—nor the separate reactive type who treats the question itself as offensive. The affinity-based position sits outside Toorop’s binary rather than being embodied by the central figure.

For storytelling blueprints the painting can still be useful as a visual of the two extremes, but it is not a precise illustration of the three categories.




Edvard Munch 'Woman In Three Stages' / 'The Sphinx' (1894)

Edvard Munch’s Woman in Three Stages (also called Sphinx, 1894) does not accurately depict The Priced, the Non-Negotiable, and the Affinity-Conditional.

The painting presents three figures as stages in a female life cycle and as psychological aspects of woman, set against a coastal landscape with a solitary male figure and a red form (often read as a flower or threshold) to the side. On the left is a white-clad young woman in profile, described by Munch as the dreaming or virginal figure. In the center stands a nude or partially exposed woman with an open, sensual pose, which Munch called the woman who loves life. On the right is a pale, dark-clad or withdrawn figure associated with the nun or with age and withdrawal. Munch also referred to the trio as saint, whore, and unfortunate devotee.

These map only partially and imprecisely onto the three attitudes:

The Non-Negotiable (absolute refusal of any price) has the closest echo in the nun-like or withdrawn right-hand figure, or secondarily in the white-clad dreaming figure on the left. Both suggest a form of renunciation or non-engagement.

The Priced (explicitly transactional, a named figure comparable to professional rates) has no clear counterpart. The central figure is sexually open, but the painting treats this as a stage of biological and emotional maturity rather than a priced exchange.

The Affinity-Conditional (free if she likes him, with clear personal terms) is not represented. The central woman “who loves life” expresses general sensual invitation or vitality, not a selective, non-transactional preference stated as a condition of liking.

Munch’s work organizes the three women as phases or facets in a cycle of life, desire, and withdrawal. It does not isolate the specific diagnostic of honesty about sexual terms—price, absolute non-sale, or affinity without price—that defines the three categories. The Affinity-Conditional and the explicitly transactional Priced sit outside the painting’s framework of stages and archetypes.